Monday, January 4, 2010

For My Lil' Bro

Dear God,

In your hands I leave my baby brother who is having surgery tomorrow at 12pm at Normah in Kuching. The specialist will operate on his spine. I pray for the wisdom of the surgeon, anaesthesist and nurses who will attend to him. I pray that they find what they are looking for and that they can fix whatever it is that is causing him pain.

Most of all, I pray that you will deliver him back to us, alive and well, and for him to have a speedy recovery.

In the name of the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Goodbye 2009

To 2009:

On your last day, I'm taking a few minutes out of my New Year's Eve BBQ dinner preparations to consider how you shaped up.

You started off well enough with my new job with the state government. I settled in and got to know my new colleagues. In fact, I've had 2 new starts this year due to the restructuring of my unit but I have ended up on the best side of the coin and am really liking where I am now! Though it has had its moments and tears have been shed in sheer frustration at the bureaucracy.

There was also heaps of travel: Perth and Brisbane in March, Sydney in June and Malaysia in December. I'm doing more travel next year both in Australia, Malaysia and overseas. Feels so good to be able to scratch the travel itch!

I moved into a new place in July, something that was waaaaaaaay overdue, and that has been going well. Met some pretty cool people there and also some real psychos! You never know what a person is really like until you live with them huh?

Men have been annoying this year, though that is nothing new. I attract two types of men regularly: the unavailable and the crazy. So Mr Engaged-to-be-Married, you were SO my type, and you still are, but ... I haven't got the energy, you know? And Mr Stalker, you need to get a life. Hanging out at Rundle Mall all the damn time, that ain't cool.

On to the less annoying men: I've accepted the inevitable, I just gotta make the move.

Passing Part I of the CIA was pretty cool. That and the white chocolate snowmen I bought from Haighs to celebrate with my colleagues! Haighs are the best.

It was also a good year for friends. I have been blessed with many friends with varied interests so I always have someone to do something with! This was also the year I started doing dinner parties again. They are such fun and I will be doing more next year!

On the perfume front, 2009 brought perfume fan sites such as Now Smell This to my attention. I also made my first purchase from Sonoma Scent Studio, an artisan perfumer based in California. All this has only served to feed my obsession ... but hey we all gotta have hobbies right?

Personally, I've discovered that I am letting go quicker. I don't dwell so much or so long on hurtful things that have been said. I've grown to prefer my own company sometimes, I find that people and their crap can be too much trouble. I like a little peace and quiet.

So thanks 2009 for what has been an abudantly good year.

I look forward to what 2010 will bring!

Monday, December 28, 2009

Trouble's Brewing

So he's upped the ante? Thrown down the gauntlet? Lost his friggin' mind?

I'm confused.

On the one hand, I am, as usual, very much tempted by what I can't have.

On the other hand (naughty, naughty other hand!), I am wondering why can't I have it.

Why can't I have what I want in the present and not think beyond today? The future may never come. Or the future I am worried about if I take this road, make this move, throw my sanity to the winds. Damn being responsible. I have been responsible all these years and it's gotten me nowhere. I feel the same as when I was first faced with this possibility, and that was 6 years ago.

And as for him, I want to shake him and say, whisper, plead: just do it already, ask me so I can say 'yes'.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Turning 30

Yesterday, the 21st of December, I celebrated my 30th birthday. Yup, the big 3-0, the birthday I had been dreading for most of the past decade a.k.a my twenties.

Why so?

When I was 25, I thought I had it all figured - at 30 I would be married, living in a house my husband and I were paying off with a big loan from a bank, and maybe, with a baby on the way. Yup, that was me at 25. I thought that life ended at 30, and even if it didn't, it went downhill for shizzle.

Sorry, too much E! on Astro. This is what I do when I am in my parents' house. If I don't have any activity that brings me out of the house, I am sitting/lying/a-lopsided-combination-of-both on the saggy couch in the TV room potato-couching-out to Astro.

So you can imagine my freaking out when, on the eve of the end of my life, I found that I had achieved none of those things. Yikes. 30 is not only The End, it also marks me as A Failure.

Then I went on my annual trip home, and I can't pinpoint exactly when, I felt a calm settle over me. I didn't mind so much. I started to look forward to the birthday dinner and presents.

And when I woke up yesterday, I didn't even remember I had stepped over the threshold into Adulthood and Responsibility. When I did remember, some minutes later, I felt pretty cool. It's like, hey, 30, howya doin'?

So, yeah, feels pretty good. I survived the Terrible 20's and am looking forward to a Tripped-Out 30's.

Oh and the birthday dinner was great and my present was a pair of 22k (916) yellow gold earrings. We had a bottle of Moet et Chandon champagne and the food at Best Western, Grand Palace, never disappoints.

Getting Around Langkawi Part 2

After publishing the last post, I realised I had forgotten a vital point: how do you know where you're going on Langkawi? We grabbed a map of the island from the car rental counter at the airport and asked how do we get to Kuah. The guy said, take this road. I said, any other road? He said, only one road.

And that's pretty much the story - really quite hard to get lost on Langkawi and there a big signs on the side of the road so you can tell when a turning to Pantai Cenang is coming up. Easy. But make sure you have a map. The one given out at the airport is rather commercial in that local attractions and restaurants are identified but not the roads' names. I'm not sure if any other version is available. Perhaps in a guidebook? I didn't get one for this trip but I did see one for Penang and Langkawi in one of the stores.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Getting Around Langkawi

Mum and me and the rented Toyota Vios at Pantai Kok

I reckon the best way to travel around Langkawi is to hire a car. They are easily hired at the airport. Dad went for the automatic Toyota Vios for RM300. We drove from the airport in it on Day 1 and returned it on Day 3. The Vios was an easy car to drive and managed to go uphill with ease. It also had ample boot space for all our luggage. Petrol was not included, something which we only realised when we were halfway to Kuah, some 15 kilometres from the airport. Maybe the flashing orange light should have been a hint, huh?

There aren't many other options for getting around the island. I don't think public transport there is all that great and depending on taxis would likely stress me out. I liked the independence having a car afforded - we could go anywhere we liked at any time. Petrol is affordable too. We put in RM50 worth on Day 1 which gave us a near-full tank. By Day 3, we still had more than half a tank left and this was after driving around everywhere.

We weren't happy at all that the car came empty of petrol, and that the proprietor refused to refund any money to us for the half-full tank in the car when we returned. We believe he should have made a point to tell us there was hardly any petrol in the car when we collected it, and that any petrol we didn't use would be returned with the car and no refund provided. This part of the trip left a bit of a sour taste in our mouths. This is the downside of not having international standard car hire companies like Hertz or Avis operating in Langkawi. We are left with local companies who sometimes (and not always deliberately, I'm sure) forget to provide all the details when they hand you the keys.


Thursday, December 17, 2009

Eating in Langkawi


Lunch at Taste Restaurant, The Westin on Day 1.
When I first decided to go to Langkawi for a short break, the intention was to spend the majority, if not all, of my time on the beach either in the water or on the sand. That was not to be. Most likely because I brought my parents along and Dad can't sit still for more than 5 minutes (seriously, the man has a colony of ants in his pants) and neither of them like the 'hot'. It was always 'too hot' to do anything more than walk from the car to the apartment and can we 'come back later when it's not so hot?'

Oh well.

So what did we do?

Apart from the touristy stuff like going to Makam Mahsuri and the cable car?

We ate.

Day 1:

Lunch at Taste Restaurant, The Westin. This was the most expensive meal of the trip. I am still getting over the can of Coke that cost RM13, which we can buy in the supermarket for RM1.50. Cost aside, it was really good western fare. The bread rolls came out piping hot and the butter was soft. We had a tomato and mozarella salad to share, and it was lovely - fresh soft crumbly mozarella and whisper-thin slices of tomato drizzled with a herby dressing. For mains, Dad had lamb cutlets while Mum and I each had the salmon. Again, these were very good dishes with good flavours. The salmon came with wasabi potato balls and tempura vegetables and a sticky almost balsamic glaze. The menu is mostly western but there are local dishes too - though I really couldn't bring myself to pay RM28 for nasi lemak (more on that in Day 2) which can be bought for RM4 at a stall and RM10 at a cafe. The bill came to approx. RM330 including service charge. I left a tip but tipping is not expected in Malaysia as a service charge is always added to the bill in restaurants and most cafes.

Afternoon tea at the Langkawi Parade. We were doing some shopping (more on that later in another post) and wanted a rest. It was about 5pm. We stopped by a little food court on one of the upper floors of the Parade. There was a little stall selling local desserts. My parents had the ais kacang and I had the lychee kang. Ais kacang is a concoction of shaved ice topped with tiny bits of chopped jelly, red beans, a scoop of ice cream and many other things I can't remember - it is very refreshing.

Dinner was fast food because we couldn't be bothered looking for anything else.

Day 2:

Breakfast was included in the room rate. On offer was nasi lemak and meehoon (bean thread rice noodles goreng. Nasi lemak is my favourite of Malay dishes. The rice (nasi) is steeped in coconut cream (this is where the 'lemak' or fat comes from). A basic nasi lemak comes with sambal, kacang (peanuts), ikan bilis (tiny anchovies), sliced cucumber and boiled egg. This is what was served at breakfast. If you eat nasi lemak at a stall, cafe or restaurant, there is usually the option of adding fried chicken or beef rendang or chicken curry.

We were at Pantai Cenang around lunchtime so decided to have lunch before going to Underwater World. We chose a Thai restaurant at the end of the building where the Underwater World was situated. The menu was not purely Thai as they also offered local Chinese and Malay dishes. We had the Japanese tofu Thai style, a steamed fish Teochew style and a red beef curry. The food was tasty and fresh, the service was cordial and quick. The only downside was the size of the individual rice servings which were too small, we had to order two more. The bill came to just over RM100.

For dinner, Dad wanted to eat at a stall in Kuah. Eating at a stall is a quissential Malaysian experience. They tend to be at the roadside and under a roof with no walls. We were back in Kuah so chose to go for a drive in the old town until we found something that look reasonable. We ended up choosing one along the river which looked like it served Chinese food. There was a table of western tourists there so we thought it would be a safe bet. There are no menus at a stall, just ask the person who comes along with a pen and paper to your table what they have. We had an idea of what we wanted to eat and ordered the steamed prawns with egg, lemon chicken, Japanese tofu claypot, mee goreng and steamed fish Nyonya style. The food was good here too and the rice servings were more than adequate. We had a table right by river but separated by a railing. At first I thought it would a scenic spot but it was dark so we couldn't see much anyway. There were cats wandering about but they seemed well fed and didn't bother us. Service was generally good but it can be chaotic at these places, especially if there are lots of customers. Just wave until somebody notices you.

Day 3:

This was our last day in Langkawi. We had breakfast at the apartment again. This time they had fried rice and mee goreng on offer. I went for the mee goreng.

We had lunch at Perdana Quay on the way to the airport. Dad had mentioned The Loaf, a bakery owned by a previous Prime Minister of Malaysia. We wandered down the quay which had a number of eating places, then saw The Loaf Bakery and Bistro. It was the only place that had people sitting inside it having meals so we decided it would do. Mum and Dad both had pasta dishes while I opted for the chicken satay. The satay came with a great kuah (gravy) but the nasi empit (rice tightly packed and cut into small cubes) was sour, like it had been soaked in lime juice or something. Then because we had time to spare, we had dessert - a honey baked banana with ice cream for Dad and fresh fruits for Mum and me. The food here was good. Service was good too, and the staff were very polite. Though the waiter dropped my cutlery when he was removing my dish. Lucky it landed on the table and not on me! I had ordered an English Breakfast tea with my dessert which never came but was charged. We pointed it out to them and they removed it from the bill. Watch out for that sort of thing, especially if you've ordered lots of items. The bill came to just under RM150. Dad tried to pay with his Visa but the machine had a poor connection (it spent forever trying to 'link', 'linking ... linking' it blinked at us but I have no idea where it was trying to 'link' to) so after 2 attempts he paid with cash instead. Watch out for that sort of thing too as it can take ages before they come back to the table with your card and tell you they couldn't get the transaction through.

All in all, a great 3 days with plenty of places to eat in all price ranges. Do note that local staff tend to speak very limited English. It was only at The Westin that we found that were easily understood when we spoke English. In other places, it was much easier speaking in Malay. And note also that credit cards may not always be accepted, a lot of the smaller establishments accept cash only.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Beautiful Langkawi - 3 Days on the Eagle Island

Dad and me at Perdana Quay. This is a relatively new development on the west side of the island. We had passed this on the way to the cable car at the Oriental Village. When we got to the ticketing counter, there was a 30 minute way and the queue snaked around the corner. Needless to say, we didn't like the idea of waiting so went for a drink and nibble instead. On our way back, we stopped at The Loaf Bakery and Bistro for lunch. It's apparently owned by a previous Prime Minister of Malaysia. There were 4 boats on this side of the quay, and some more on the other side. That's millions of dollars right there, sitting pretty on the water.

On the sand at Pantai Kok. It was baking hot sand and I hopped to the water after taking off my shoes. The water was crystal clear and I wish I had more time - would have been lovely to swim in the sea. The beach was pristine.


At Dataran Lang (Lang Square) in Kuah, Langkawi's old town, where a huge statue of an eagle greets visitors arriving by sea. The ferry point is nearby. 'Lang' is short for 'helang', the Malay word for eagle. 'Kawi' is old Malay for reddish-brown. Thus the island's name in English would be Reddish-Brown Eagle Island. We stayed in a serviced apartment in Kuah and rented a Toyota Vios at the airport. We found that driving around the island was very easy and convenient.



Mum and me on the edge of a paddy field, en route to Makam Mahsuri (Mahsuri's Masoleum). Mahsuri was a Malay maiden killed in the 13th century. Legend has it that she was falsely accussed of adultery by a jealous sister-in-law. Her husband was the younger brother of the Sultan of Kedah's representative on Langkawi. While her husband was away at war leaving Mahsuri and their baby son, Mahsuri's sister-in-law accused Mahsuri of an affair with Derembang, a poet from Sumatra. No further investigation was carried out before she was sentenced to death. She was tried to a tree for some days before being pierced by an enchanted keris (Malay dagger), at which point she bled white blood which many islanders took as a sign of her innocence. She cursed Langkawi for 7 generations. It has only recently begun to prosper and is now a thriving international tourist destination. On our drives around the island, we noticed many paddy fields and many kampung (village) houses - indicative of a traditional way of life for the Malays of Langkawi.


View from Taste restaurant, The Westin. I took my parents here for lunch on the day we arrived as a late wedding anniversary present. They celebrated 31 years of marriage on the 10th of December this year. Dad had the lamb and Mum and I both had the salmon. Food was good and so was the service (though I did balk at the RM13 can of Coke). I must say The Westin, which is located just out of Kuah after the ferry point, is an elegant building. All the staff we came across were very polite, spoke perfect English and seemed to go out of their way to make sure we were comfortable. I will definitely consider staying there on our next trip to Langkawi - likely to be in 2011.




Thursday, December 10, 2009

Sarawak Native Customary Rights - A Violation

It was with much interest and growing anger that I read this article by Joseph Tawie on the Malaysian Mirror.

Native land is native land. We have given up so much already. The people who live on that land - it's not like they're rich and have options. Where they're living is pretty much it. And to uproot them to God knows where and under what conditions is criminal.

It is typical of government servants to treat the matter with such insensitivity. Sending them a letter! Telling them they will be evicted or fined RM5,000 - more money than these people have probably ever seen - is heartless, cruel and evil. It shows a complete lack of understanding - it is likely the people the letter was sent to can't read, it would have been more appropriate to send a representative to talk to them. But that isn't the point, the point is this shouldn't even happen and they should stay on their land.

We must not forget that these are our people, our indigenous people who already struggle with poverty, poor job prospects and lack of education. How can they fight against a government that is used to getting its way? A big bully of a government and we are no better for standing on the sidelines.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Training at the Stamford Plaza Adelaide

I'm gonna cut to the chase and tell you about the catering at the Stamford Plaza Adelaide where I spent the past two days attending a training course.

Morning tea was so-fresh-it-was-steaming scones one day, and mini muffins in assorted flavours the next. Afternoon tea was a kind of cake one day and the afore-mentioned scones the next. My only complaint is the lack of strawberry jam to go with the scones during afternoon tea. Strawberry jam and cream are the only things that belong on a scone.

There was coffee and tea too. Varieties of tea included English Breakfast, Earl Grey, green tea with jasmine, green tea with lemon, chamomile and peppermint.

I missed out on lunch on the first day due to a meeting I had to attend. Lunch on the second day was held buffet-style. Main dishes on offer included basmati rice, beef curry and some kind of stuffed pasta - might have been ravioli. I skipped the pasta.

On the entree table, there were cold cuts including beef and ham, a pasta salad, a garden salad, marinated mushrooms in oil with chilli, cold chargrilled vegetables (capsicum, eggplant etc), ham and salad baguettes and Danish fetta. The soup was pumpkin which I particularly enjoyed, there was ginger in it which smelled divine.

The desert table defied description. There were at least 10 different types of cake/tart/other assorted baked goodies. I managed to eat two of these, as well as some watermelon and honeydew melon. I skipped the cheese platter altogether.

Yes, a very well-fed two days. Makes a nice change from the usual wrap and focaccia lunch we usually have during such courses, if there's even any lunch included at all.